Friday, February 29, 2008

10 Warning Signs He Is Not Committing To You Anytime Soon

When you are madly in love with a guy it is easy to ignore all the hints he is giving you that tell you dont expect commitment anytime soon. Most guys are pretty honest about commitment but many women stay in the relationship hoping that he will come around in time. Ive worked with women who have hang in there for several years (on-and-off) until the day he actually says I do to someone else, but even then they keep hoping that he will leave her and come back.

There are many warning signs men give out but here are just a few most common ones. See if you can identify with any one or several of them.

1. He tells you, you are beautiful, wonderful, loving, kind, compassionate etc. and the guy who gets you will be very lucky (translation: that guy is not me)

2. He doges talking about his past, avoids direct questions, makes decisions alone and talks about a future that does not include you (translation you better be out of here before that time).

3. He is still in frequent and regular contact with one or more of his ex girlfriends (or wife) and wont include you in the friendship or introduce you (translation: you are not the number one in my life).

4. He is still angry at his ex girlfriends (or wife), blames them for the problems in the relationship and sees himself as a victim of women (translation: you are a woman too, and you are my problem).

5. He tells you he cannot commit until he is sure that he can take care of you (translation: I cant even take care of myself, dont expect me take care of you).

6. He talks and treats you differently (not lovingly or respectfully) in front of his friends and family from when you are alone (translation: I don't care much what they think of you as a potential wife or mother of my children, you will never be).

7. He tells you he wants to take things slowly meet other woman and have a kind of open relationship (translation: I think there is someone out there who is a better match for me).

8. Six months into the relationship and he is still just looking to see what happens (translation: I am not really that into you and the moment I meet someone else I am out of here).

9. He tells you not to get emotionally attached to him every time you tell him you love him (translation: what do you expect me to say, that I love you, too, please!).

10. He tells you face to face that he is not interested in settling down any time soon (translation: if you want get married go find yourself someone else)

Sometimes you know deep down that the relationship is going nowhere, you want to end it and move on but because you and this guy have such a strong soul connection you feel stuck. One part of you says go another part says but he is my soul mate. Well he could be your soul mate but not all soul mates are there to stay for a lifetime. May be your soul has learned what it wanted to learn from that relationship and is ready to move on. Or may be each of you needs to do their soul work separately and if its meant to be you will later on merge again. You will never know until you really take time to be honest with yourself and look at your relationship for what it really is now rather than what might have been.

About the Author: Christine Akiteng, Internationally renowned Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of ebook: The Art Of Seducing Out Of Fullness helps men and women cultivate that NATURAL EASE that draws the opposite sex in - without the mental stress and emotional frustration of today's dating dynamics.

Christine's websites: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com and http://www.theartofseducingoutoffullness.com



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