Thursday, February 7, 2008

Dating Advice for Boomer Women - Adopt the Dating State of Mind

If you want to be in a relationship, the first step to your search is getting into a dating state of mind. I call this Adopting Daters Mind. When you have daters mind, you think of yourself as someone who dates. Sounds silly huh? Not really. If you dont think of yourself this way, then you probably arent connected to your feminine allure either.

Now thats a problem. It makes dating much more of a struggle.

Without feeling attractive, knowing that you are worthy, that men will notice you, and approach you, its pretty hard to jump the gap to actually getting out there and meeting prospects. Im working with a woman right now who hasnt been doing her coaching homework. She claims she is too busy, but this is a smoke screen.

How do I know? From talking with over 1,000 women you catch on. Either she doesnt really want to date, its not one of her biggest priorities or in this case - she doesnt see herself as someone who dates!

Yikes!

The solution? Get connected with your allure ASAP. And heres how:
1) Pampering - from getting a new hairstyle, new color, highlights, facial, new makeup, make over, manicure and pedicure - anything that beautifies will increase your self-esteem and make you feel more beautiful. When you think you look good - YOU DO! 80% of your beauty is how you feel about yourself. Keep that in mind.

2) Is your underwear drawer filled with old cotton comfy favorites? Go get some new lingerie please! It doesnt have to be expensive. If you dont want to take a trip to Victoria s Secret, then try Marshalls or TJMaxx (two of my personal favorites). Im not talking about thongs or being uncomfortable. Get some color, satin or lace and wear them to work!

3) What do you like about yourself? Do you appreciate who you are? Pick out one feature and be thankful for it every day for 7 days. Then pick something else to appreciate. This builds your self-esteem and gets you in touch with what makes you attractive. And once again, feeling good about yourself shows - it becomes the non-verbal message you send out into the Universe.

4) Believe connecting with a good man is possible. If you doubt you can find one, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Chapter seven in my book MANifesting Mr. Right gives you 7 powerful MANifesting techniques that I used and plenty of successful clients have also used to start believing and attracting him into your life. Believing is crucial for your success.

All four of these tips will heighten your allure and keep the idea of being someone who dates front and center in your awareness. And that is just what you want. Whatever you put your attention is usually what you get. So start developing Daters Mind to attract the love you want. Do it for yourself today.

To get f*r*e*e advice on 10 Reasons Why Women Should Never Pay on the First Date, visit www.NeverTooLate.biz Check out the book MANifesting Mr. Right: Its Never Too Late to Find the Love You Want by Dating Coach and expert Ronnie Ann Ryan at ManifestingMrRight And for a Daily Dose of Dating Advice, read her blog

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The Tomato Martini

When you hear "martini" what pops into your mind? Gin, vermouth, and olives, right? Well not so much anymore! In this day and age anything you throw into a martini glass is now called a "martini". There are hundreds of martini recipes out there and when tonight's "Happy Hour" is over there will be hundreds more in the morning. So it looks like today's martini is a work in progress. Now these recipes are for people who love Bloody Marys and will surely will impress your friends.

Mixing Tip: Always (yes always) use fresh ice, and keep everything as cold as possible- your cocktail shaker, the martini glass, your liqueur, cocktail picks- yes everything.

SPICY TOMATO MARTINI

8 ounces of vodka.
4 tablespoons of tomato juice.
1 teaspoon of green hot sauce.
Juice of one medium lemon.
2 tablespoons of pickle juice.
(optional) Dash of Worcestershire Sauce or A-1

Pour your vodka into a shaker half full of ice.
Add the green hot sauce.
Give the shaker a good shake.
Add the tomato and lemon juices.
Another couple of shakes.
Strain into 2 well chilled martini glasses.
Garnish with grape tomatoes on a sword.

Yellow Tomato Martini

1 1/2 oz of vodka
2 oz of freshly juiced yellow tomato
(or you can blend and strain them)
dash of salt
A couple drops of Green Tabasco (to fit your taste)
Juice of half a lime
A couple drops of Worcestershire sauce (again to fit your taste)

In an ice-filled shaker, combine the tomato juice, salt, Tabasco, lime juice, and Worcester. Add the vodka, shake, strain into a martini glass, and serve with a skewer of three baby yellow tomatoes

For an extra added punch for your next party or BBQ give this recipe a whirl:

Cherry Tomatoes In An Over sized Martini Glass
(this takes twenty four hours to marinate but a ten minute prep)

30 to 40 cherry tomatoes, or grape tomatoes
1 tbs of garlic
1 tsp of salt
1 tsp of pepper
750 ml of vodka
Tabasco sauce (optional)
parsley (for garnish)
lemon pepper seasoning (served in high ball on the side)
toothpicks or swords (placed in shot glass on the side)

Cut a shallow cross shape in the top of each tomato, put them in a large bowl and add the garlic (as much or as little as you like), a little salt, Tabasco (optional) and do not forget the vodka. Allow the tomatoes to marinade in the vodka, stirring occasionally; Let them soak overnight covered with a lid or saran wrap and after 24 hours they can be put in the refrigerator. Pour into a large over sized martini glass and serve with a highball glass of Lemon Pepper for dipping and a shot glass with toothpicks or swords.

Think about it once you have mastered exotic martini recipes you will be known among your friends as the "martini master"! Here's to you master.

Michelle Dudley runs http://www.gotdudley.com where she is always looking for unique Food and Drink articles, feel free to contact her if you have an article on the subject at shelly656@gotdudley.com. If you would like to know the ins and outs of mastering the perfect martini please visit http://gotdudley.blogspot.com/

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